Frequently Asked Questions

Can you tell me more about what I will experience?

No two Anchored in Love retreats will ever be the same. Each one carries its own rhythm, its own sacred moments, and a divine flow that can’t be scripted. We’ve seen time and time again how perfectly God weaves together the experience, tailoring it to the hearts of the couples who attend. What we can promise is this: You will step into a safe, welcoming, and peaceful atmosphere where you’ll have the space to encounter God and each other in a deeply personal way. While we will outline the schedule and share what’s planned, the truth is—there are no words to fully capture the transformation that happens here. Every retreat is spirit-led, intentionally designed, and powerfully orchestrated by God. Come with anticipation. Come ready. Your marriage is about to be anchored in love in ways you never imagined.

What makes this retreat different from other couples' retreats?

There are plenty of couples' retreats out there, but Anchored in Love: a dream marriage retreat isn’t just another getaway—it’s an intentional, transformational experience designed to bring you and your spouse into deeper connection, body, soul, and spirit. Here’s what sets this retreat apart:

💛 Luxe Meets Transformation – This isn’t a conference-style retreat with packed schedules and surface-level teachings. You’ll be staying in a stunning private luxe home, indulging in five-star dining, and experiencing high-touch, personalized coaching designed to create lasting change in your marriage.

🌊 Sacred Space for Reconnection – We don’t just focus on communication techniques or date-night ideas. This retreat is about creating space for true heart connection, allowing you to heal, dream, and rediscover each other in a way that feels effortless and natural.

🔥 A Spiritually Grounded Experience – This retreat isn’t about religion or performance. It’s about creating space for reflection, connection, and encounters that invite clarity, healing, and alignment—both individually and as a couple.

✨ Personalized Attention in an Intimate Setting – With only 5 couples attending, this is not a one-size-fits-all experience. Every session, every conversation, and every moment is intentionally crafted to meet you where you are in your relationship.

🚙 Adventure + Play as a Path to Connection – We believe that shared experiences create deeper bonds, which is why we incorporate fun, adventure, and personal exploration time into the retreat. From a sunset boat cruise to exploring the location area of the retreat, you’ll not only grow together spiritually but also laugh, play, and create unforgettable memories.

❤️ More Than a Retreat—A Marriage Reset – You won’t just leave refreshed; you’ll leave with a renewed vision for your marriage, practical tools to keep the connection alive, and an anchor that holds you steady long after the retreat ends. This is not about fixing what’s broken. It’s about strengthening what’s already good and making it extraordinary.

Will we have private time as a couple, or is everything in a group setting?

While this retreat includes powerful guided sessions, transformational coaching, and unforgettable shared experiences, we also know that true connection happens in the quiet moments, too. That’s why most days will include dedicated private time for you and your spouse to explore the location area, shop & savor the local culture, enjoy the beach, hiking or whatever your heart desires. (activities will depend on the location of the retreat)

Will there be one-on-one coaching with Jimmy & Shanna?

While this retreat is designed to create organic moments of connection and transformation, we know that sometimes you need deeper guidance, clarity, or breakthrough conversations—and we’re here for that. For couples who desire personalized support, one-on-one coaching with Jimmy and Shanna will be available at no additional charge, scheduled as needed during the retreat. Whether you’re navigating a specific challenge, seeking deeper insight, or simply wanting to process what’s coming up for you during the experience, we are happy to sit with you, listen, and guide you through the heart of what matters most.

What is the cost of the retreat and what is included?

Anchored in Love is an all-inclusive, elevated marriage retreat designed to help couples reconnect, dream together, and deepen their love. Retreats are hosted both in breathtaking international destinations and beautiful locations within the United States. Each experience is intentionally curated and carries its own unique feel—while holding the same heart, depth, and purpose. The investment for this 5-night, 6-day retreat ranges from $4,500–$7,000 per couple when paid in full at registration. Pricing varies by location and experience. Payment plans are available. Your investment covers luxury accommodations in a private home, thoughtfully selected for comfort and connection, a king bedroom with ensuite bathroom (for most retreats, unless otherwise specified), ground transportation from the destination airport to the retreat location and return at the end of the retreat (when traveling with the group), daily breakfast and dinner prepared by a private chef, group coaching and guided connection sessions, a couples adventure excursion, and curated gifts and experiences designed to create meaningful, lasting memories. Optional one-on-one coaching with Jimmy and Shanna at no additional charge for couples who desire personalized support.

The only things not included are airfare to and from destination airport, passport fees, travel insurance, gratuities, lunches (so you can explore the local area’s amazing local cuisine), and alcoholic beverages.

What is your refund or cancellation policy?

Because of the highly personalized nature of Anchored in Love: a dream marriage retreat, all registrations are non-refundable, without exception. Every detail of this experience is intentionally curated, and your commitment secures a space that cannot be easily filled last-minute. We understand that life happens—whether it’s unexpected events, travel disruptions, health concerns, or personal emergencies. However, due to the exclusivity of this retreat, we are unable to offer refunds for any reason, including but not limited to weather conditions, flight delays or cancellations, natural disasters, acts of God, medical or family emergencies, work conflicts, or a change of plans. We strongly encourage purchasing travel insurance to protect your investment in case of unforeseen circumstances. In the event that you are unable to attend, we are happy to offer a credit toward a future retreat so you can still experience this transformational journey at a later time. By registering, you acknowledge and agree to these terms. This retreat is an investment in your marriage, and we are fully committed to creating an unforgettable experience for you.

How will I know when to fly in and out of the destination airport?

We will email all flight arrival and departure details to each participant 60 days before the retreat to ensure you have plenty of time to plan your travel. ✈️

Do we need a passport?

Yes, a valid passport is required for travel to any international location . Please ensure your passport is up to date and does not expire within six months of your travel dates. If you need to apply for or renew your passport, we recommend doing so as soon as possible to avoid any delays. Of course, you do not need a passport to travel within the United States and their territories. If unsure, please ask for clarity.

Will we have our own bathroom?

Yes! Every couple will have their own private bathroom inside their room, ensuring comfort and privacy throughout the retreat.

What type of food will be provided? What if we have dietary restrictions?

You’ll enjoy fresh, high-quality meals prepared by a private chef, featuring a mix of authentic local cuisine, seafood, steak, and chicken dishes. All ingredients will be locally sourced, offering a delicious, fresh, and flavorful dining experience. We will do our best to accommodate dietary restrictions with the resources available on the island. However, if you have specific dietary needs or preferences, we encourage you to bring any supplemental food items to ensure you have everything you need for a comfortable experience. If you have questions about specific accommodations, feel free to reach out before the retreat!

Are alcoholic beverages included?

Alcohol is allowed but not included in your retreat investment. If you’d like to enjoy your favorite drinks, you’re welcome to purchase them on the island or bring your own. We simply ask that everyone drinks responsibly and respects others who choose not to drink. Our focus is on creating a safe, welcoming, and deeply connected atmosphere for all couples to enjoy.

What kind of activities and excursions are included?

This retreat is designed to be a perfect mix of adventure, relaxation, and connection. We will always offer an excursion at each retreat along with other curated experiences, rather than a one-size-fits-all itinerary, we want to tailor them to what feels most exciting and meaningful for the couples attending. Approximately 60 days before the retreat, we will host a Zoom call with all attendees to go over the details of the trip, including the available excursion options. This allows us to personalize the experience based on your preferences while ensuring every couple gets the most out of their time away on the retreat.

Is there a dress code for any activities or dinners?

While there’s no formal dress code, we do have one elegant dinner planned where we ask the you dress in Black + Gold, as well as possible nights out on the town depending on the retreat location. Details will be given on the zoom call 60 days out. We’d love for you to dress in something that makes you feel amazing—something you’d love to have a beautiful photo in to remember this experience. Other than that, wear what makes you comfortable! The retreat is all about relaxation, connection, and adventure, so bring outfits that fit both chill vibes and casual vacation exploration. And of course bring your swim suit, or two!

Is Wi-Fi available at the retreat?

Yes, the retreat house will have wi-fi.

What if we don’t know anyone else attending?

That’s completely okay—and honestly, most couples won’t! But from the moment you arrive, you’ll feel welcomed, seen, and part of something special. These retreats aren’t about surface-level small talk; it’s about genuine connection, shared experiences, and creating a space where you can just be yourselves. We’re keeping the retreat intimate with only five couples, which means you won’t feel lost in a crowd. By the end of the retreat, you’ll not only feel closer to your spouse but also walk away with new friendships and shared memories that will last long beyond our time together.

Is this retreat faith-based?

This retreat is deeply rooted in the presence of Jesus—without religion, performance, or pressure. We believe real transformation happens through relationship: with God, with yourself, and with your spouse.

Throughout the retreat, you’ll be invited into sacred, heart-centered moments with Jesus—through reflection, grounding, breathwork, and gentle encounters that create space for clarity, healing, and deeper connection. Nothing is forced. Nothing is scripted. Just intentional invitations to meet God in a personal, meaningful way.

If faith is already an important part of your marriage, this retreat will feel like a place to rest, realign, and reconnect with God together. And if you’re in a season of curiosity, questioning, or rediscovering what faith looks like for you, you’ll find this space to be safe, open, and full of grace.

No expectations.
No pressure.
Just room to encounter love, renewal, and connection—heart to heart.

We are introverts—will we be required to participate in everything?

Absolutely not! This retreat is designed to honor who you are and what you need. While we have powerful group experiences and guided sessions that are designed to help you connect with yourself, your spouse, and others; we also build in plenty of private time for you to recharge, explore, and connect as a couple. There’s no forced participation, no pressure to overshare, and no expectation for you to be “on” the whole time. You get to engage in a way that feels right for you. Whether you thrive in deep conversations or prefer to soak in the experience quietly, you’ll find that this retreat gives you the space to be yourself while still feeling connected and included. And just for the record, Shanna is an introvert 😉.